My Road Not Taken

Rewind four years ago. I’m one year out of college. I had taken the LSATs. I was accepted into law school and getting ready to start my first semester as an evening student with a full-time job in communications during the day.

Rewind two years ago. I reach the halfway mark. I’ve been working 8:30 a.m. – 5:30 p.m. Monday through Friday and going to school from 6 – 9 p.m. I’m not happy. I’m weighing a choice in my mind but haven’t spoken the words out loud to anyone.

And then I did it. I quit law school.

Back to present day. Today, Tuesday, July 30, 2013, is the day that I would have been joining my fellow law school grads to take the bar exam. It’s given me the chance to reflect on how much has changed in my life since then. 

At 23, you don’t know as much as you think you do. I’m actually finding that as I get older, I know even less. I went into the whole thing blind. I was smart. I liked to read. I loved school. I thought that was enough.

Despite the lost time and money, I wouldn’t change a thing about the past four years. (Okay… maybe the loans. Yes, definitely the loans.) I learned a lot, not only about myself, but about how the world works. I notice myself reading every word of any legal document set in front of me. I look at news stories about legal proceedings differently.

In school, while I was learning to look at the world with a more discerning eye, I also looked at where my life was heading. I realized that this degree wouldn’t give me what I wanted.

I didn’t want to work at a law firm. I didn’t want to put in long, horrific hours. I wanted to work an eight-hour day doing something I loved, with time and energy leftover for my family. And thankfully, after two years, that’s where I’m at.

I’m building a career for myself as a marketing and communications professional. I’m sharing my passion for health/fitness with the Columbus community as a barre3 instructor. I’m married to my best friend and we’ve started a strong foundation for a life together.

While law school wasn’t for me, I’m happy for those who have found their passion in it. I’m grateful for the time I spent there and for all that I learned. I’m especially thankful for the friendships and the amazing people I met.

Today is a huge day for those taking the bar exam. It’s also a huge day for me. I get to reflect on how proud of myself I am for realizing I wasn’t on the right path and for getting myself to where I am today. It’s been a long road but I’m the happiest I’ve ever been. I’m doing what I love and I get to share that with the people I care about the most.

If you don’t like something about your life, change it. It really is as simple as that.

Back to Reality

VacationGroupLast week I was preparing to leave for what turned out to be an amazing vacation with even more amazing friends. There were 21 of us that planned and executed a trip to Ocean Isle Beach, NC.

The house we stayed at was perfect. We had a pool and private beach access, and it was spacious enough that no one felt cramped. Not to mention Laura, the owner, was beyond responsive and made sure we had everything we needed. The weather consisted of sun the entire week, with the exception of our last day which was spent playing cards, packing and cleaning.

I wanted to capture the only picture we were able to squeeze everyone in for, which happened to be the night we deemed “tank and taco night.”

Speaking of tacos, if anyone is going on a large group trip and needs help meal planning, I’ve got the list for you! We cooked many of the meals in our kitchen, which saved us a lot on expenses. While the initial grocery trip was exhausting for the four of us that went, it was well worth it. It ended up being pretty comical, with each of our carts overflowing with food and drinks. I’d be lying if I said we weren’t asked twice if were extreme couponers.

I appreciate the time I was able to spend with my friends and am so grateful for the memories and laughs.